It is a truth universally acknowledged... Point 2

Point Two: Women complain that men treat them like objects, well when you choose to "put yourself out there," what do you expect?

Okay lets talk about how men treat women like objects, I am not denying that it doesn't happen. There are some real jerks out there. However, I think that women can easily add some unneeded temptations to the mix that scream:"I am desperate and available." When you send that kind of message, what do you expect guys to think? It boils down to one word: RESPECT. I have seen in my friends, and even my generation as a whole, that girls don't respect themselves. It can be seen anywhere how girls wear tight clothes, low cut tops, short dresses, copious amounts of make up, 9 inch heels, fake hair, fake tans and about a billion other things to get guys attention. When you decide to wear a dress that leaves absolutely nothing to the imagination, you are doing yourself a disservice. In a way, you are asking for attention, and you are going to get it. But the guys that are going to give you attention, aren't the type you want to attract, unless you really, completely, absolutely want to have a jerk drooling over you. Its unladylike, and honestly, it makes you really seem like an object.

I am not a guy, so I am not totally sure, but I think most respectable guys actually like a woman who respects herself. I know that even as a female its more fun to be with a friend who respects herself, and portrays confidence then it being with someone who will do anything for attention.

So if you don't want to be treated like an object, prove it. Cover up the areas that should be hidden, don't go insanely overboard on the makeup (I mean don't look like an oompa loopa who was mugged in an ally), and try to have your outward appearance reflect how you feel inside.

Being called pretty is a much better compliment then being called hot. And I don't know about you, but I would rather be classy than trashy. Go ahead, put some more clothes on, find something comfy to wear. And remember that RESPECT from guys begins when you have respect for yourself.

Part 3 Coming Soon!!